.However what Astrid does not recognize yet is an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- that has two children-- can easily verify: The simple fact that your connection along with your parents changes as well as grows as you each age, and also perhaps for the better. "Your globe centers around [your kids] when they are actually babies [as well as] it's a lot work yet lovely," O'Hara states. "Later, you truly miss out on that, since then you can't acquire them to accomplish just about anything you wish them to accomplish, since they start establishing their very own minds, their very own point of views." And inevitably, you wind up in the location O'Hara, whose boys reside in their 20s as well as 30s, discovers herself now, capable to learn from her children. "They're simply such trendy young individuals," she says. "I'm not their colleague, however I like possessing chats along with all of them as well as understanding exactly how they deal with lifestyle.".